Choices and Pitfalls

Sometimes life comes at you fast... faster than you know what to do.
Car wreck. Lose your job. Finding out someone is cheating on you.
THANKFULLY, things in my life are relatively steady and stable.

In my dating life, the turmoil I allow is what holds me back. I fall
"in Like" with a girl and lately, she inevitably lets me down.
Dating has not been easy lately. Fun in some ways, but not fully
rewarding in many others. These are the choices that define us.
Do I continue seeing her? How do I really feel about her?
What do I get out of it (short & long term)?

We makes choices on a daily basis.

Even Today, made a hard decision to stay in SD and miss my favorite
band playing a small, intimate show in the City of Angels.
WH... WH... WHAT???!!! You may ask WHY NOT go? Just wasn't feeling
it in my gut - leaving work early, relying on other people to go with,
driving to LA, waiting hours for a show, getting out late, driving home
late and not getting much sleep. I ask myself - is it about comfort?
Getting old and complacent? No longer the adventurous guy I once was?
Maybe too much of a planner and thinker now.

Will the FOO FIGHTERS be there next time I want to see them?
One can only hope.

All I can say is - no matter WHAT your choices are, make sure to live
without regrets.