Indifference

How do you know when you like someone?
How do you know when you are REALLY attracted to them?
What makes us attracted to each other?
Why would I like her MORE than I like her?
Blonde? Brunette? Short? Tall? How Old or Young?
Nice Smile? Good Smell? Great Body?

What I have found out about myself is dating for me
is like Exercise.I enjoying doing it. It's sometimes hard.
But the payoff is that great feeling
you get.

I always am lucky enough to talk to girls without
feeling intimidated.I think it's an acquired skill -
the more you do it, the better you get.
Practice makes Perfect. Confidence is reassuring.

But WHERE to meet these lovelies?
In a Bar? At an Event? Happy Hour?
At Work? Through Friends?
Maybe Online is more your thing?
The taboo is gone, correct???

I have found a combination of ALL these places is
a good start.Spread it out. Look everywhere.
Don't limit yourself. Meet a LOT of people. You never know
where she may be hiding...

Thankfully for me, I'm not in a place right now to think
about it. More important things weighing heavy on my mind.
Life stuff. Career stuff. Women stuff is taking a back seat.

I think part of me has finally decided that it is nice
to have a girlfriend / significant other / wife, but if it
doesn't happen (along with kids) I think I would be alright.


"I will hold the candle till it burns up my arm
I'll keep takin punches until their will grows tired
I will stare the sun down until my eyes go blind"